The virtue and terror of personal temptations in corporate relationships

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I remember it was May 1994.

I had recently been outsourced to the company I had joined as an intern a few years earlier, and my work was directly related to an area for which a new manager had just been hired. The chemistry between us was instantaneous and evolved into a romantic relationship.

At the time, the company had no specific rules about the situation. As soon as we realized we both wanted to move forward with the relationship, we decided that one person needed to know about us before anyone else: our boss.

After all, he was the one who signed off on my expenses; I had a track record with the organization and needed to protect myself and my partner, who held a very important position in the organization.

At no point in time did we question what we had to do. Our personal values were such that there was no option. The solution was simple, transparent, and straightforward.

We reported our relationship to the boss, who started to approve my bills directly.

The relationship naturally ended after a while, but it left me with an essential life lesson that remains relevant even after so many years, especially when I started my corporate governance studies and faced dilemmas that were technically very much the same: the conflict of interest between the personal and the professional.

At that moment, I realized that this experience had been my proper certification in compliance.

About 30 years after that first test, I have often come across issues regarding conflicting circumstances due to divergent interests or just simple questions—most of them asked by third parties—in which even the best codes of conduct were unable to define, predict, or engage properly.

Codes of conduct often prohibit spouses or relatives from working in the same environment or even in the same company; yet these codes can be superficial and often ignore personal relationships that do not fit these social parameters.

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